Husband & Wife

 

Dating vs. Proposing

Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim is a one of the new breed of Muslim preachers, who had mastered the principles knowledge of Islam, armed with professional and social experiences, and came from stable background, which many Muslim preacher lack.. Despite the allegations and controversies about his Salafi orientation; some of his topics are truly beneficiary to Muslims..

The Islamic knowledge is diverse and wider than any attempt to master.. Therefore, his school of thought had ignored the spiritual part, which is a great enigma for many.. This is why he had driven closer to extremists and radical Muslim..  Therefore, I do advise reader to be careful and conscious during such lectures.. and any others.. Simply; pick what fits and avoid what does not..

Therefore, his domains and topics about the governance seeded in our Muslim code of conduction and life style is very important to carefully understand.. Maybe words are not going to fit all Muslims, but the merge between Arabic linguistics and Universal Muslim Codes are the critical exam for how healthy and rationale our religion is..

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Wife vs. Husband

Muslim men; to be permitted for marriage; have to be mature, bread-earner, with good manners and have basic knowledge of Religion.. These four (mandatory) qualities would make men reliable and accountable to form a Muslim family and raise Muslim kids.. Then, they will add value and volume to the “Momentum of Believers”; which is the main purpose of marriage and reproduction.. Across the world and cultures; 1400 years ago, and stills among the majority of Mankind; men are expected to have the same four qualities to be qualified for successful marriage..

On the contrary, women who want to marry, are not required to compete for the above four qualities, apart from their implicit devotion as religious persons.. This is why men; across most cultures, regions and histories, were (preferred) older than their spouses; which is still traditionally exercised among more than 70% of the people today..

Muslim wives and husbands are generally and sustainably entrusted to exercise all religious rituals and duties, nurture their spouses and kids, keep all spousal privacies, maintain their household.. This is almost the same across all other doctrines..

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Mutual Happiness

The Marvelous Basweidan’s;  Lenka, Saeed & their kids.. Be Blessed

From: Ne tuguj, Allah je s tobom
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Translated by Google Translate; kindlly forgive the errors

Do not grieve, Allah is with you
The relationship of husband to his wife ..

If you are married, look in the mirror and ask yourself dal meet at least half of this, and if you ask yourself how they could meet today to marry …. Of course, the ladies have things that they should meet, but let some of them state the 10-odd 

First Be clean and pleasantly scented.

When we last left my men to buy beautifully designed pajamas?

Just as the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her.
Remember that Resulallah – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam – used miswaak before entering your home and that’s always loved the sweetest smells.

Second Use only the cutest names for your wife.

Resulallah – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, had nicknames for his wives, the ones that they loved. Call your wife the most beloved names, and avoid using names that may hurt her feelings.

Third Do not treat her like a fly

We never think about the fly while we do not start trouble. Similarly, the wife will do well all day – and thus will not attract the attention of her husband – until she does something to upset him. Do not treat her, recognizes all the good it does and let that be the focus.

4th If you see something wrong with your wife, try prećutiti without complaint!

This is one of the ways that the Prophet – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam – used to use when they see something inappropriate from his wives – Allah’ anhuma. This is a technique that, unfortunately, very few Muslims have.

5th Smiles to his wife whenever you see and embrace her often.

Sadako was a smile and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Just imagine what you would have a life that she always smiles at you. Remember those hadiths that speak about that Rasulullah – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam – kissed his wife before leaving for prayer, even when he was fasting.

6th Thank her for what he does for you.

Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at his house. She made food, cleaned the house, and ten other things done during the day. And sometimes the only acknowledgment of this gain is that it should put more salt in the soup. Do not let it be so, thanks to her!

7th Prompted her to write these last ten things you did for her and that she was made happy.

Then try again to do it. It is possible that you can identify what makes your wife happy. You do not have to indulge in a guessing game, ask it and then give all of yourself to it spake again.

8th Do not belittle her desires. Comforter is.

Sometimes men can run down a woman’s requirements.
Rasulullah – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam – gave us an example to follow when his wife Safijjah – Allah’ anha – crying because she was, as she said, he put on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted it, and brought her another camel.

9th Be šaldžija and is a fun game.

Remember that the Prophet – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam – race with his wife Aisha – Allah’ anha – in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that with my wife?

10th Some are always on my mind these words of the Prophet of Allah – salallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam: “The best among you is he who is best towards their wives. And I’m the best to their wives.” Try to be the best!

In conclusion: Do not forget to pray to Allah, Mighty and Majestic – to make your marriage (like everything else) successful.

And again Quran Allah knows best.

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Spousal Meter

 When things go out of order or control..
When hectic schedules of life leave no chance for breath or rethinking..
When simple disagreements will grow to be steel barriers.
Then, take five to examine each of you against the above 25 statements..
Then, you will definitely understand your own self better,, and your spouse as well..
Gradually, you can work together to eliminate dividing issues..
and grow stronger the closing ones..

Be Blessed and Pleased