8 steps to confront your wife’s sexual refusal

At last; I had the access to these Christian guidelines, which is no much different from the Islamic ones.. The concept is almost the same, the solutions seem identical.. Only Islam prevents disclosing  intimate conflicts to others, and permits divorce if nothing works..

Biblical Gender Roles

How should you as a husband handle it when your wife directly refuses to have sex without a valid reason? Is there anything a Christian husband can do about this?

This will be my last post specifically about sexuality in this series on “How to be godly husband”.

Christian Husbands – let me be crystal clear here. The situation I am addressing in this post is not your wife occasionally turning you down for sex (even with a bad attitude, as opposed to for health or other legitimate reasons). What I am addressing here is the wife who consistently and routinely denies her husband sexually simply because she does not need sex as much or she thinks she should not have to do it except when she is in the mood or she thinks her husband should have to earn sex with her by “putting her in the mood” by…

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Farkhunda Killing..

She was an Islamic scholar, with feminist views.. Not typical for communities which had been ruled for long by ignorance, isolation and incompetence..  It was easy for a “Mulla” to shout falsely that she burns the Quran; then the idiot ignorant public would crucify her.. The mere power of the ignorance..

I can imagine that she had only burned some “controversial” referral books, not the Quran itself.. At the Muslim communities of central Asia; they hardly understand what are the differences.. They treat some referral books more sacred than the Quran itself.. I had observed, debated and felt bad about this realities among poor uneducated and frustrated people..

Ordinary people exchange rituals, teachings and advices, which are far from true Islam..!!
Any objection would easily label the person as infidel or Kaffer; regardless what religious or educational status he/she has.. It is ultra dangerous to deal with..

The Governments are truly torn between rationalism and radicalism.. Many officers are radicals by default.. Many youngsters are potential terrorists by default.. Many literates are increasingly helpless by default..! It is simply complicated, with no hopes for rectifications, corrections or development..

They constitute harm to my “Islam” more than any anything..

They simply mark the end of times..!

Muslims.. Lost in Translation..!!

I shall put it as a naked truth: There are two types of Muslims.. Arabic Speakers, and Non-Arabic Speakers.. Now, some guys would got nervous.. Others would shake their heads rejecting.. and very few would look for the next words to understand my phrase..

Certainly, Quran is undoubtedly the living miracle of Islam.. A “Text-Book” for all had happened, happening, and would happen.. This is the simple believe all Muslims receive in their early ages.. and continues to be throughout their lives.. Almost weekly, researchers would find clues within the scripture that explain a phenomenon or provide an answer.. However, not all questions are answered, nor all answers are “academically” accredited.. The Holy Quran on parallel is a linguistic enigma; which includes lots of amazing and brilliant facts..

Yet, all are in “Arabic”.. a language only spoken by few hundred millions, and linguistically mastered by few hundred graduates..!  Nevertheless, Arabic speakers who their local slang are influencer than classical language, are getting further trouble understanding the Quran without assistance..!!

During the last few decades, I had witnessed lots of misinterpretations and wrong translations of Quran, Hadeeth and referrals.. Among some enthusiastic communities, the misspelling of Arabic grammaticism and literature had led to awful situations; which collectively produced the radicals since 1979^th.. Inevitably, the more years to pass, the more Arabic becomes complicated to chew, comprehend and understand.. Therefore, Fatwas from ill-Arabic-equipped preachers are flooding the 1.4 billion Muslims, and touch the lives of the rest 6.6 non Muslims..!!

All Muslim fanatics and debates are linguistic based..

http://www.theguardian.com/global/2015/may/17/losing-their-religion-british-ex-muslims-non-believers-hidden-crisis-faith

Losing their religion: the hidden crisis of faith among Britain’s young Muslims

As debate rages over the radicalisation of young British Muslims, are we overlooking a different crisis of faith? Ex-Muslims who dare to speak out are often cut off by their families and fear for their lives. A brave few tell us their stories

Nasreen: ‘I’ve had bouts of clinical depression. The thing is, Islam teaches you to grow up with a lack of identity. Without the collective, you’re lost.’ Photograph: Andy Hall/Observer

Makkah 2015

I just came back from Makkah & Maddinah.. I had recharged my inner self, and polished my outer one.. It seems every time a person would go there, he/she would experience something new.. something different..
Yes construction and development at the Grand Mosque are annoying, yet when completed at 2017; it would present a great image and facilities..
Maddinah is always calm, contended and smiling.. It is a place made and evolve with love and simplicity..
wish you all the opportunity to visit… Ameeen